“A healthy and good sex life is important to every marriage and is a blessing from the Lord! Contrary to popular belief, but in accordance with Biblical Principles, sex is for marriage! Although it is not often discussed and deemed private, a good sex life enhances every other aspect of personal and public life. Below is a list of things to remember that will enhance your sex life!” (Man, Money, Ministry – 2010)
God’s desire for man is that we “prosper and be in good health even as your soul prospers”. For most entrepreneurs, this is an area if frustration. While most of them prefer not to talk about it affects their business and ultimately the nation, because it affects their decision-making abilities.
Many contracts, business and national level decisions take place in the bedroom! Even judicial decisions! Some people are bitter and frustrated. Some have been abused, but because of their positions and status, they are afraid to say it! Some complain that there is a breakdown in the relationship after years of marriage. Others complain that their partners have stopped doing what they used to in order to keep them interested. Still others say that having suffered rape and other such abusive experiences their marriages suffered too because it became a roadblock in the marriage and was never dealt with.
We have seen multi-million dollar company leaders, sports stars, politicians, VIP’s and even religious personnel, suffer loss because of this issue.
We must recognize that this is not a natural problem but a spiritual one. It therefore cannot be dealt with through natural therapy! Instead it has to be dealt with from a spiritual standpoint! It has to be dealt with from the root. Only Jesus Christ can deliver persons from this matter. When it is properly dealt with, millions of dollars can be saved! Additionally, many lives will also be saved and the nation will experience change for the better.
Many organizations are making millions from the Sex Trade, and it is now influencing the legislation. It affects the Household Spending habits because some men when they get paid have to share their salaries with their wives, husbands and sweethearts. They often end up neglecting to take care of the needs of their children.
Regardless of the proposed reforms of the private and public sectors, until we deal with the Family and Sexual Issues afflicting the people of the nation, reforms will fail.
Attacks on the family were among the first economic catastrophes that took place in the Garden of Eden. Family affects both nation and business.
Solutions
First, recognize, understand and accept that fact that marriage is one of the biggest investments you can make.
Find out if there is Sexual Integrity! That is, you must identify whether infidelity exists in the marriage. If there is, then healing and restoration must take place quickly.
Pray – people pray for everything else except for the healthy sex lives of husbands and wives. We need to pray more aggressively in that area – that husbands and wives have a good, healthy sex life; it is the area of greatest attack.
Do not allow the children to interfere with your Sex Life! Send them over to the grandparents for the weekend and go relax at a hotel or dinner and a movie. (Man, Money, Ministry – 2010)
Cut down on the late work hours, night-clubbing, lengthy studying, and bar-hopping. Being a professional student also destroys family relationships and marriages. Pastors and other Church leaders often spend too much time with ungrateful Christians while their own families suffer! Military personnel become more involved with their military duties than with their own families and the relationships breakdown. Any promotion that is tied to or is as a result of sex is not worth it! It is better to walk away and maintain a healthy marriage and sex life.
The longevity of any organization or nation is determined by the health of the marriages and sex lives of the decision-makers and the people of the nation.
(Apostle Steve Lyston is a Biblical Economics Consultant and Author of several books, including End Time Finance and The New Millionaire)
